Empathy?

Sometimes, i feel that being angry over a wrongdoing/ a crime just generate more hatred in the world.

Does being indifferent or try to not care means that I am someone without empathy or sympathy?

I do sympathize and I do empathize with those who are affected, no matter how distant your relationship to the victim is.

But I would rather these ppl to spend their timing doing something good to make up for this bad that has happened, rather than to criticize and generate more and more hate in the world.

I totally don't mean that one shld go unpunished for the crime. Definitely they shld be punished by the law.

I just mean that we shld not spread Hate.

Only God can judge.

A wonderful single life

It's a refreshing jap drama which gives me little tinges of 感动 every episode.

Love all the characters inside, how they grow and learn to know about things n abt themselves and to cherish their relationships with others.

Love the different flowers and the meaning of each type of flower:)

A v comfortable show to watch with pleasant looking characters and heart warming plot:)

My humble opinion: Life of pi analogy

The journey is the route to attaining a dream

The zebra, orangutan and cheetah are good and bad things you encounter along the way.

The tiger is the biggest hurdle to ur dream. And maybe, the tiger, as hinted by the story, is yourself. The weaker part of you which does not dare to chase after your dreams.

To fulfill the dream, You must be alert to the hurdle in front of you and keep on trying to overcome the hurdle. If the hurdle is your weak self, u must be constantly self-aware and don't let ur weak self convince u to give up.

They hurdle is a threat and obstacle to u fulfilling your dreams, but getting to know it better yet it helps you to grow, and 'accompany' you on ur way to fulfilling ur dreams. When the hurdle is your weak self, you need to learn to understand the source of this feeling of weakness, be it low endurance or low confidence or others, and to tame it and grow out of it. To constantly realising these weaknesses and to overcome themwill make u a better person and perhaps bring u closer to ur goals

The island which devours things at night, is your comfort zone. You may think you have tried hard and work hard enough, so you thought you have already made it so far thus it is okay give up on ur dreams now. But no, to give up means to be devoured by the island, to fall back to who you are again, to the same plight as before (death of dreams). So keep moving on until u have reached ur final destination. Don't be satisfied with what you have achieved thus far and decide to stop moving on. Keep moving.

At last, the hurdle will leave u

And you attained your dreams

Life of pi

Just finished watching life of pi

I think i prefer a fantasy to a tragedy, prefer hope to plain reality.

I want to believe that such a legend really happened. And I don't even rmb or bother to rmb the other story which doesn't involve the tiger.

There is always hope and dreams in my heart.

The movie makes me realised it. And i can't stop smiling to myself now:)

The graphics are incredible too. It depicts dreams and every dream is a fantasy filled with breathtaking moments.

Single

Breaking: First-timer single buyers, aged 35 and above, earning $5,000 or less, can buy new two-room flats from HDB

Well, this news wont be applicable to me cos (hopefully) I will earn > $5k when I am 35...

I am only 26 now but I think I will 孤独终老 T.T

谈得来的: a handful
心动的: zero

Well, i am pessimistic and skeptical person towards relationship, but I hope to meet someone who makes me falls hopelessly in love. Pls dun be a 骗子 thou ;p

Song w/o lyrics

Listening to a song w/o lyrics and thinking abt my life...

Life seemed to be back on track, but is this the track that I want?

Preface

I have a tiny wish to write a book based on my work and travel experience in Nz, as when I was initially researching on this topic before I went overseas, I Realised that there are not many books which I can use as reference for my working holiday. So I want to write something to share my experience and perhaps to encourage more ppl to take up the challenge to persue what they want.

Just wrote the preface or what seemed to be the first paragraph of my book and I think my English is bad!!! It's totally not elegant, and I dunno how to refine it.